“You never have to change anything you got up in the middle of the night to write.”- Saul Bellow

Nightlife is truly a method of relaxation for me specifically. All of the hard work and hours I put in at work gives me an excuse to enjoy a drink or two, or three and enjoy the surroundings at any restaurant or bar I may visit. The preparation in fixing ourselves ladies is quite a large amount of time but it's defines, at least for me, how the rest of the night will be. I need to be confident that I am representing myself, and that I feel confident about the way I look. In writing this blog I will ask the following question. Why are Women self conscious? I find myself being a bit more self conscious in a public setting like a bar or a club. I hate to admit it but I am. Who often finds themselves scoping out the women and making a comment about their wardrobe? (yes, let's admit it ,we all know we do.)

My answer to the question in bold above is because we are surrounded my thousands of publications that advertise and plant stereotypes of beauty that are un-accomplishable, irregular and honestly un-acceptable. I have mentioned several times that my main goal is to break down the stereotypical parameters that have been set in place and display true beauty. We have to ensure that we are honest with ourselves and realize that we are each beautiful in our own way. We need to be strong and follow our own path, especially when it goes against the crowd.

So I vow to always represent no one but my true self and vow to have complete confidence. Which I have but if my hair or makeup isn't perfect, or I don't exactly like my wardrobe, or if I wore the wrong shoes I vow to have, THE BEST NIGHT EVER, regardless. lol.